Goals have a learning curve, believe it or not. Think about it this way. At one point or another, everyone has had a bill to pay. There’s usually no way around paying what’s “due”. Goals and habits work the same way. Key points Paying your dues means experience Practice = Experience There is no way […]
Habits & Lifestyle Hacks
A Habit to Understanding Each Other
Trying to “help” someone before you really understand them is like trying to answer a question you haven’t even heard yet. It doesn’t make sense, does it? Key Points Do A LOT more listening than talking If something sounds ambiguous, ask what they mean until you know 100% Understanding them is good enough. NEVER assume you […]
How to Change Someone
Listen now, Understand Later…….. Key points You can’t change anyone Only give advice if asked Just because someone listens doesn’t mean they understand Sometimes we think we understand, but it’s impossible to fully understand Less judgement and more respect goes a long way Change by example Change of Heart There are many times where we […]
STOP GUESSING! A Habit to Never Making a Mistake Again
“The only source of knowledge is experience “ – Albert Einstein Let’s talk about a very popular habit that people usually acquire easily and at a young age. It’s all around us and we hardly notice, but it comes back to bite us in ways we wouldn’t expect. It’s guessing. Guessing you say? Well, let […]
The Only Thing to Fear is FEAR
“Always do what you are afraid to do.” Ralph Waldo Emerson I would like to talk about fear again. We are all afraid to get hurt, physically and emotionally. Most fear isn’t logical, just the feeling of not knowing the outcome of something or confusion can cause a very uncomfortable feeling. Feeling is dominant over […]
Can’t is the Cancer of Happen
“Can’t is the cancer of happen” – Charlie Sheen I’m going to go back and retrace the roots of my blog and talk a little bit more about discipline. Last time I discussed some simple ways to make the world around you better. Making environmental changes such as selling a game that takes up too much […]
Influence Your World by Making it Influence You
Pure Consciousness Leaves More Room for Error
Never Settle…………..Free Yourself…..
“Man, the living creature, the creating individual, is always more important than any established style or system.” Bruce Lee Today I want to talk about the little things in life. Everyone is basically living by the experiences and values they grew up with, while trying to be as comfortable as possible. That is a very […]
When the World Moves, we Follow Closely Behind
“An eye for an eye only ends up making the whole world blind”. -Mohandas Gandhi Today we’ll talk a little about adaptability. Human are especially good at adapting. We are constantly influenced by our surroundings and the way society moves. We cling to the values that are around us and make judgments based on our […]